Have you ever asked yourself, "Why does life have to be so
hard?"
If so,
you're probably making at least 1 of the 7 critical mistakes that single
moms make. We usually don't even know we're making them, but they keep
us from moving forward in our personal lives. They keep us from growing
and from experiencing the joyous, abundant lives we want and deserve.
Which
mistakes are you making?
*Mistake #1: You Give
Grudgingly
The problem is not that we don't give, it's
the energy behind our giving that's the problem. Because so much is
asked of us, we often give grudgingly and resent it. That kind of giving
does not help us; it actually keeps us stuck. To get unstuck, make a
conscious effort to feel good when you are giving. When you do, it will
come back to you ten-fold.
*Mistake #2: You Don't Know
When To Say Yes or When To Say No
How often do you say
Yes when you don't mean it or want to? When you do this often enough, it
creates turbulence in your body and mind. Do you know that you also say
No when you should be saying Yes? You might be missing out on some
wonderful times with your kids because you get on No automatic pilot.
Really listen to the question before you answer. Pause. Feel what is
right, and then answer.
*Mistake #3: You Don't Balance
Your Masculine and Feminine
As single moms, we are always
in control and always "doing". We have to be so strong just to get
through the day, so we end up taking on more of our masculine side.
However, never forget your real essence. You feel your true self when
you are in your feminine power. You can still be strong, but let your
guard down and let your softer side show.
*Mistake
#4: You Don't Get Off The Merry Go Round
The merry go
round spins and spins. Spin around long enough and you start feeling
sick, right? So, don't let your life be a merry-go-round. Stop. Slow
down. Pause. Take time to think and reflect.
*Mistake
#5: You Receive Reluctantly
Some single moms have a very
hard time reaching out and receiving. We don't want to admit we need
help. But, the truth is you do need help- everyone does. You do not have
to do everything alone. Allow people to help you. Remember, it makes
them feel good to give so allow them tha
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